NIVARTHI The Art of Sacred Living

The Inner Sanctuary

The psychology of gratitude.

Notice the good. Name it. Let it grow.

See the divine in your mother, your father, your teacher, your guest.

मातृदेवो भव । पितृदेवो भव । आचार्यदेवो भव । अतिथिदेवो भव ।

mātṛdevo bhava · pitṛdevo bhava · ācāryadevo bhava · atithidevo bhava

Taittirīya Upaniṣad 1.11.2

The sun rose again.

Someone thought of you.

You had water, and a roof.

Count these. They count.

What research shows

  • Writing down a few things you are grateful for each week was linked to greater well-being and optimism.

    Emmons & McCullough (2003), Journal of Personality and Social Psychology 84(2), 377–389

Gratitude in practice

  • Write three good things, once or twice a week.
  • Thank one person, specifically.
  • Before eating, pause in thanks.
  • At an altar: offer one flower for one blessing.